BROCCOLI AND CAULIFLOWER …remember when your mom insisted that you HAD to take a bite of each before you could leave the table! (I know, you still don’t like those veggies because of that traumatic day!) ANYWAY….
MEDITATION AND CONTEMPLATION … Oh brother! these two are even worse! Like these two similar looking vegetables, meditation and contemplation are similar and similarly distasteful to lot of us. Probably the least practiced, least understood, and more difficult, more mature forms of spiritual activity that are out there.
It has taken me quite a while to understand the subtle difference between these two spiritual practices. Like staring at twins until you realize that there ARE slight differences in the noses…..and then you’re embarrassed for staring so much. And like broccoli and cauliflower there are more differences than just the color. I admit my to slowness, but also must throw in an excuse: very few people along my journey have helped me with this. It points out the fact that there is an incredible lack of information out there on HOW TO PRAY….the raison d’être of this site.
Back to our twins….it is quite simple actually. Although they both are very introspective, quiet and reflective, meditation is stimulated by something external (like a text, a quote, an image, a thought) while contemplation by the internal, (silence, stillness, void, lack of reasoning and rational thought).
OK??? You may be thinking…I knew I wasn’t going to like this broccoli!
ALLOW ME TO GET MORE PRACTICAL…After you have led off your praying with a few courses like praise and thanksgiving, you may open your Bible to a few verses that have already been meaningful to you (but this is not Bible study time). If you read them again and pause to reflect on them, to taste them, to chew on them…..you are “meditating” on these words. (in the tradition of David in Psalm 119:15,23,27,48,78,97,148) This is fleshed out a little more in SIMPLE MEDITATION RECIPE
If you take this one step further and sit in silence for just a few minutes….not really processing or thinking about the text but just open to receive what it wants to give you…..then you have moved into contemplation.
Once the silence seems to have run its course….you may look back at the text or image that has inspired you….intentionally thinking about it or meditating on it. Then move back into the silence and stillness of contemplation. Cycle back and forth as long as there’s something there.
Give it a try. Like broccoli….it may take some getting used to.
PS: I am very appreciative of Cynthia Bourgeault who has helped me to understand this beautiful interplay of the twins: meditation & contemplation.